Saturday 26 May 2012

Foreword

As the 'New Millennium' dawns on us, rapid changes take over our lives. . . . . where 60 seconds is not enough for one minute, 60 minutes to an hour, 24 hours to a day, and so on and so forth. These changes make us think and re-think on how to make our knowledge and expertise stay relevant in a fast changing world. In trying to cope with this development, we tend to catch up with the whole world. . . . by learning new things, exploring new gadgets that we can put our hands on, and anticipate with excitement every news of advancement in science and technologies. For most of us, there's no other way but to ride the wave of change.

But wait, there's more to life than being a 'techie' or a 'knowledge-based' worker, right? With so many preoccupations, coupled with a busy working life, we've forgotten about the other half of our existence in this 'dog-eat-dog' world. We have forgotten about the meaning of friendship. . . . . we have forgotten about the smell of roses. . . . . and hopefully, we have not yet forgotten why we exist in the first place.

Well, I must admit I am one of the fallen victims of this rapid change.

But not anymore. I thought that we can work doubly hard and give 100% in everything that we do or ask to do, and still find time to pursue other interests in life. . . . . like walking the kids in the park, having a candlelight dinner with your love ones, playing your favourite sports or doing outdoor activities with your friends, trying to keep in touch with your relatives who are posted anywhere around the world. The list is endless.

But how in heaven's name can we do all that? Time management my friend. Remember, it's not how long, but the quality of time we spent that matters. Stay focus, set your goals, prioritise things, work systematically, and never forget to have fun, working or otherwise. Worries will only cause you more harm than good. It affects your efficiency. As long as you give your best, and you give your all, the 'present' will no doubt take care of 'tomorrow'.

Failures are part and parcel of life. Don't let it deter you to pursue your dreams. Rather, use it to create a better 'you'. Most people equate success with money or a person's net worth. But some people have different sets of parameters and benchmarks. What is the use of the most expensive bed if you cannot sleep properly, or the most delicious food if you do not have the appetite to eat? The choice is yours.

2 comments:

  1. This is a fascinating article and I can relate to it wholeheartedly. As a software developer myself, most of my time really is spent on contniuous upgrading and learning of new technologies just to keep being marketable and avoid the dangers and perils of stagnation.

    However even in the middle of all these stuffs I always try to find time for my family especially to my wife and my little boy. As my boy grows really fast, I don't want to miss the opportunity playing with him and having fun together. I won't just sit there and let time being passed me by or be left behind. I want to be with him in that journey as it will not be repeated anymore.

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    1. Enjoy the moment while it lasts, because it won't. Few years from now, your son will ask you not to hold his hands in public. He will spend more time talking, playing or social networking with his friends. And soon afterwards, you will be just an ornamental decoration in your own home..... never noticed, always ignored. Happy Father's Day!

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